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Furry Angels

“Until one has loved an animal, a part of one’s soul remains unawakened.” Anatole France

Audrey and Spike
Audrey and Spike

Most people have soft spots for our furry friends just view YouTube animals and see the volume of views on anything to do with animal antics and care stories. I’m no different, I have always had a dog in my life from childhood and in the later years I have grown to love cats as well. Today, I have the pleasure and honour of being watched over by three furry angels and a guest furry angel. I am calling them angels because at this time in my life they are giving me such peace and love, it’s as if they can sense the physical wrongness that is in my body and they all of them hover and try to cover me with their little bodies 24/7 drawing out the bad. Where I walk they will follow, never leaving me alone in the house. If I need to sleep for a few hours, they curl up alongside and stay there until I wake. They are my constant companions always there to give me their loyalty, unconditional love, and a hug and lick when I need it. So, I would like to introduce them to you…

Spike, who happens to belong to my sister, came into her life last November. He is part pug, part jack Russell. He is smart, with a most intelligent face. In the beginning I wasn’t sure about him as he was an older dog rescued from termination. So, I did not know his history. I could only get a sense that maybe he had been abused because he was somewhat shy and non-approachable initially. It took him a few weeks to get to know me and realize that I was always coming home. He certainly suffered from separation anxiety. Once I understood this, I started to make a very big deal about when I was leaving and when I was returning home with him. Lots of touching and kind words and soon he was my most faithful companion hanging with me every day waiting patiently whenever I had to leave him and so happy when I returned. I have grown to love this little guy and he in turn has rewarded me with his love and angel protection. His favourite pastime is sitting in stealth mode for Khimo… who he chases around the house playing hide and seek.

Starlin and Khimo
Starlin and Khimo

Khimo, is the baby a beautiful black with two white spot tabby who my daughter and I purchased in 2007 to help with the loneliness of my older cat Starlin. We picked Khimo because the pet shop had a posting of him over his cage and there was a memo which stated that black cats where the hardest to adopt because of their colour, silly superstition and that they were the most frequently abused and terminated based on their colour. My daughter and I, could not let that happened to him.  Khimo was born and raised in the shelter and had never be out of a cage until we brought him home. That first couple of days and nights were for him so traumatic because for the first time in his life he was able to go beyond the bars and investigate his new world and the folks in it.  Once he became comfortable, I became is human mommy, he would curl up under my chin and sleep like that until I moved him. Even as lean and long as he is today, he still thinks he can get under my chin. He is a head butter always looking for me to acknowledge his presence with a good butt to my chin and he refuses to be ignored. Especially since becoming ill, he is even more so wanting to be in my space, needing to curl up while I’m watching TV, or in my office, he definitely sleeps with me now and generally finds that he has to have some form of physical contact. In the evening he and Spike will sit on each side of me as if protecting me from the bad influences in the air. Together, they have a companionable rivalry going on and will go off and chase and hide in there imaginary game which I seem to always be the center. I literally, cannot move without one or the other seeing where I’m going and Spike always at my heel.

Starlin, my old girl has been with us since 2001. She is a beautiful taupe tabby and she is the animal that has traveled the farthest and struggled through the wreckage of my personal separation. Through the breakup, Starlin lost her long-time dog friend and companion Truman and her freedom as we moved from a house where she had been allowed to roam to an apartment where she was confined to three rooms. I became very concerned for her as I could see her spiraling downhill and becoming depressed. She was home alone for most of the day while my daughter went to school and I to work. So, within a few weeks I knew that I had to do something or lose her. So, we introduced Khimo to the family and it worked within a very few short days, Starlin kicked into mommy cat mode and she and Khimo became each other’s lifeline and together they became mine. Starlin, loves where we are now because again she is allowed her freedom and can roam in the beautiful forest trees of Northumberland Hills and bask in the sunshine. She is the master of our household the grand dame so to speak. All other furry residences and furry visitors know that she sets the rules. When she walks into the room, they all watch and listen.

For my cats, they have a safe haven which is strictly for them and that is my bedroom. I have a gate across my door so that they can jump over and remain unmolested from Spike or any visiting dog friend allowing them a quiet space to sleep during the day. It’s bright and airy and has high places for them to laze around. During the evenings needless to say, they are my sleeping companions. Spike has his bed setup just outside the gate and that works for him as a protector he has views of our bedrooms and is very close to watch over all of us.

Last but now least is my nieces little pug Audrey. Who is truly full of beans. I have become her mom away dog sitter and I enjoy every minute of it. Spike and she, are best pals and she slides right into the hierarchy of the home with no problem. I moved her bed outside the gate as well, so that she could be close. Audrey is full of energy and gets Spike and her running around the house chasing each other in circles. It’s hilarious.

These furry little angels are so special and I truly believe that in their little hearts and souls angels reside to help make my days a little happier and a little less stressful and that the energy they pass on to me with a stroke of their fur, a cuddle and lick is positive energy infused with love and healing powers.

R.S. McLaughlin Durham Regional Cancer Centre at Lakeridge Health Oshawa

A few rough days since my last treatment three days ago.  I have been feeling a bit tired and woke on day six with a very sore throat and difficulty swallowing. But, all in all I’m doing very well and a couple of Tylenol with rest and I am right as rain. Life is good.

I wanted mention the R.S. McLaughlin Durham Regional Cancer Centre at Lakeridge Health Oshawa for taking such good care of me and for being so helpful in making sure I understood how they would manage my treatment. To think a week ago I was diagnosed and sent on the radiation journey within a day is truly remarkable. Initially, I was so unsure about the radiation treatment, having received massage doses my first time around in the 70`s for Hodgkin’s disease. So to say I was intimidated to have to undergo this treatment again is an understatement, but with so little time to think about it, it was onward and forward. Today, I can only say wow… the Radiation Oncologist, technicians and nurses at the center are angels in disguise and helped make my experience an easy process to go through.

As I am somewhat of a tech junkie, I was fascinated with the progressive technology and applications that were being used to administrator the treatment and even manage patient intake. From the form fitting mask that molded over my head and  face  which initially looked like the top of a flat tennis racket grid pattern and made of a hard plastic to the technicians during setup who hovered over me in the center of this hi-tech wood paneled room, calling out facts and numbers, just like pilots do in the jets during pre-flight take offs. What kind of mathematical genius are these medical technicians? It took several hours (for me over two hours) to calculate out where and how to point those lasers through the grid mask. Amazing… For anyone interested I have linked to an actual treatment very similar to the one I was in and this is a picture of my actual face mask. 100_6546It’s a reminder  for me of how the world  has changed in this age of technology and folks it is not all bad.

For everyone and anyone who has to travel this road know that the health care professionals involved in the care of cancer patients are very special people and I believe truly have a sensitivity to our needs that goes beyond just their jobs. My journey is not over, but knowing that supporting me is a whole host of amazing medical professionals gives me the drive to do my part by staying positive, getting the rest I need, eating properly and give my friends and family the love and encouragement that I am here for them as they are for me and will continue the fight.

Every day, I can write is a very good day…